How to Choose Intimacy Products Without the Overwhelm

You do not need a big bundle to get started. Always Under has retired the pre-made kits previously featured in this guide. Choose one product for what interests you, then add anything else only when it has a clear purpose.

For a first toy

Start with beginner-friendly toys. Compare size, shape, controls, power source and cleaning instructions. A simpler set of controls may suit you better than a long feature list.

For sensory accessories or restraints

Explore individual restraints and sensory accessories. Choose together, agree boundaries and learn the release mechanism before use. The old Tickle & Tease and Buzzed & Bound bundle offers no longer apply.

For gels, sprays and other essentials

Browse arousal gels and creams, male delay sprays and performance gels or oral play products according to the intended use. Different formulas need their own label checks; buying them together does not make them suitable for mixing.

For anal toys and lubricant

Compare anal toys and choose a compatible lubricant separately. Introduce products gradually rather than treating several items as a single routine.

Keep your shortlist short

Write down your purpose, budget and the one feature that matters most. Our Easy Picks Under £35 collection can help narrow the choice. Check each product’s current price and availability before ordering.

Before you order

Read the current ingredients, instructions and material guidance. Products with similar names can have different formulas and intended uses. Follow each label separately and do not assume products are suitable for mixing.

Prices and availability can change; use the linked product pages for current information. Free UK shipping is included with every order.