Open relationships and non-monogamy UK

Open Relationships in the UK: Trend, Taboo, or the New Normal?

Let’s talk about it — because clearly, a lot of you already are.

Open relationships and non-monogamy used to be the kind of thing whispered about at dinner parties after too many glasses of wine. Now? It’s front and centre on Reddit, podcasts, dating apps — and in bedrooms across the UK.

So what’s actually going on — and why are more Brits exploring love (and sex) beyond the one-partner box?


💬 What Is Non-Monogamy, Anyway?

Put simply, non-monogamy means not limiting yourself to just one romantic or sexual partner. It can take loads of forms — open relationships, polyamory, swinging, throuples, or even just “monogamish” couples who have the odd adventure together.

It’s not about cheating — it’s about consent, communication, and clarity on boundaries. If that shocks you, it might be time to update your definition of what a “healthy relationship” looks like in 2025.


📈 Why the Sudden Rise in Openness?

  • Post-pandemic honesty. After being stuck indoors and forced to re-evaluate everything, loads of couples started having more real convos about what they want — emotionally and sexually.

  • Dating apps have gone wide open. “Ethical non-monogamy” is now a filter on apps like Feeld and Tinder. People aren’t hiding it anymore.

  • The stigma’s breaking down. Gen Z and Millennials especially are less fussed about following one relationship script. They’re asking, “What actually works for us?”


❓Is It Right for You?

Maybe. Maybe not. But if you’re curious, you’re not alone. Exploring non-monogamy can:

  • Reignite long-term relationships

  • Build emotional honesty

  • Introduce new types of connection

  • Push you to learn what you really want

But it’s not a shortcut to fixing a broken relationship — it takes serious trust, emotional intelligence, and open chat (not just open legs).


💡 Wanna Explore? Here’s Where to Start:

1. Talk first, touch later.
Get comfy talking fantasies, fears, and boundaries. No surprises, no pressure.

2. Read up.
Try “The Ethical Slut” or “Opening Up” — two brilliant books packed with insights.

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👀 Final Thought

Non-monogamy isn’t a fad — it’s a shift. For some it’s a full lifestyle, for others it’s a one-time curiosity. The key? Stay honest, stay safe, and make sure it’s fun for everyone involved.

Whatever relationship structure works for you — you deserve pleasure, exploration, and freedom without judgement. And we’re here for all of it.

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