Let's start by agreeing that when people talk about a "crazy weekend," it's usually seen as a positive thing. But if someone calls another person "crazy," it's often negative. So, when we talk about 4 wild sex positions, don't worry – they're not super complicated, yoga-like moves. In fact, they're positions almost anyone can try with their partner.
4 FUN SEX POSITIONS
While some of these positions are more exciting than others, remember: variety is the spice of life! And in this context, using the word "crazy" is definitely a good thing!
1. X MARKS THE SPOT
The X Marks the Spot is kind of like an upgraded missionary position… and possibly even more rewarding.
- Similar to an upgraded missionary position.
- How to do it:
- One partner lies on their back with their head at the top of the bed.
- The other partner lies on top, creating an "X" shape.
- It's fun and provides similar stimulation to missionary, but may not offer much clitoral stimulation. Consider adding a sex toy for extra pleasure.
This position is a fun one as it provides similar stimulation as missionary, but note that vulva owners may not get to enjoy much clitoral stimulation. Opt for a clitoral sex toy if you fancy, to create double the amount of bliss.
Additionally, the partner on the bottom could grab their lover’s butt or legs to add deeper penetration, and the partner on top could grab onto their lover’s arm for deeper thrusts.
The drawback of this position is that it doesn’t really aid in much G-spot stimulation, and it doesn’t offer eye contact.
2. BRUTE
The Brute sex position gives the one on top more of a dominant role. It’s one that’s similar to the Amazon sex position, but in reverse.
- Gives the partner on top a dominant role.
- How to do it:
- One partner lies on their back with knees to their chest.
- The other partner straddles them and moves up and down.
- It doesn't offer deep penetration, and it's a bit of a workout for the partner on top, but you can find ways to make it more comfortable.
Tip: To make the Brute sex position more comfortable for the partner on top, they can place their feet under their lover's armpits. This helps them push upwards, considering the position involves quite a bit of exertion.
The challenge with the Brute sex position is its limited depth of penetration, which might appeal to some but not to others.
A potential drawback is that it can be physically demanding for the partner on top, potentially exerting too much pressure on the bottom partner's thighs with each thrust. To address this, the bottom partner can gently guide them back upwards using their thighs for added comfort.
Alternatively, for enhanced comfort in this adventurous position, the partner on top can opt to remain relatively stationary. Instead of thrusting up and down, they can use their hips to create a back-and-forth motion.
3. THE DOWNWARD STROKE
The Downward Stroke sex position is a fantastic choice for individuals seeking G-spot stimulation. While it does demand a certain level of strength from the partner on top, the pleasurable results make it well worthwhile.
- Great for G-spot stimulation.
- How to do it:
- One partner lies on their back with legs raised.
- The other partner, standing, lifts them for penetration.
- Intimate with eye contact, but it requires strength. Make sure to find the right angle for comfort.
While this position may require a bit of effort, it can be highly intimate, fostering eye contact. The unique thrusting motion, moving in and out rather than up and down, allows for stimulating the upper wall of the vagina, creating an incredibly erotic experience. This position is also well-suited for those exploring anal sex.
However, a potential downside to this adventurous position is that discomfort may arise if the partner on top struggles with the angle. To address this, they can enhance comfort by holding onto their lover's thighs in a way that feels pleasurable for both partners.
4. THE HELICOPTER
Excited for an exhilarating experience? The Helicopter sex position promises an adventurous whirlwind and provides delightful G-spot stimulation for vulva owners.
Before diving in, it's important for penis owners to ensure their flexibility. A quick test involves standing upright and pointing the erection downward. If this can be done comfortably, then you're ready to proceed with enthusiasm.
- A whirlwind adventure with G-spot stimulation.
- How to do it:
- Both partners lie down on their stomachs, facing opposite directions.
- The top partner reverses until their thighs are over the bottom partner's thighs.
- Requires flexibility and penile strength. Go slow and find the right fit to avoid discomfort.
One downside to this adventurous sex position is the limited depth of penetration. Additionally, successfully engaging in this position demands significant penile strength. Without it, there's a risk of straining the suspensory ligaments in the penis. It's advisable to take it slow, ensuring you find your most comfortable fit before diving into more intense activities.
Ready for a new sexual adventure? Remember, safety first, and always listen to your body. If something feels uncomfortable, switch to a different position that makes you both feel great. Enjoy the ride!